Safe Survival Problems.

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Anon, May 7, 2020.

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  1. this is reminding me of the purge
     
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  2. P0VA

    P0VA Recruit

    Thank you for the replies, and thank you Schaum for stepping up, aswell as expressing your dedication to keeping us together. Thank you Flower for responding to me, I have some things to say in response. First of all that was my bad mentioning this player as I know he doesnt like to be talked about like that, as I saw him in the screenshot I thought it would be okay, and they could of messaged me asap since I can edit my own posts too, but I want to thank you for handling that for me.
    I also would like to say, protecting is part of my personality, and that I didn't mean to make myself look like the victem and will follow advice from Schaum and block if anything else arises. For me..this was so minor and these incidents with this staff member where not directly said to me but affected me all the same, so I thought Schaum would ignore me again if I had said anything. So you telling me that you're absolutely sure that it was just my brain making up fake stories, that makes me feel insecure, and I would like to speak with you personally about it, but again it's minor so I never bothered mentioning it because whenever I argue I feel like people think I'm just trying to get attention, and you know I feel and think about alot of things that are and are not true, sometimes these things make it hard for me to tell the difference between reality and my inside headspace. I hope this can be understood okay. As of what you said about nobody belittling me or making me feel unwelcome, I believe you're right. No one has said anything rude to me, and I do realise that I've been a little rude to some staff who just want to make me feel welcomed.
    Still I know these things happened, this is why I said "to make yourself feel better". Honestly I was being rude, and could of worded it differently, I think this is me saying that, it's okay and I forgive them for making me feel this way, but it's time to have a different approach to handling your own problems, and so do I. I know I say sorry alot, but I say sorry because I don't want to lose friends, or people that I'm closely attached to. I hope we can come to and understanding, aswell as I want to say thank you again for reasurring me that nothing is wrong, since it probably gets tiring. I miss debating with staff so thats why I felt the need to express what's been going on lately on the server, and support both sides of the arguments. If I felt like nothing needed to be said, I wouldn't of started.
     
  3. P0VA

    P0VA Recruit

    I just wanted to add that some of my points were invalid, especially about staff. I kinda just realised that I play on an alt to avoid this, so no one actually knows who I am for me to make that statment except for afew who figured it out or I just told. I asked you to prove me wrong and you have, but another thing is, please don't feel like you always need to be right. I will go back and correct what I stated because I value honesty, or transparency, and want to make sure I give credit where it's due. Aswell as this being a childrens server, I didn't mean to imply that and I'm aware that we have players like 50+ who play here. I don't think my issue was that serious, but it stems from past experiences and I just want to get over that. I do still want to talk about it but I feel like it would go no where, so your promise is good enough for me. Thats all I think I just wanted to correct myself again cuz it made me feel dumb realizing that lol.
     
  4. Ollie

    Ollie Recruit

    I find it disgraceful using 2019 as a scapegoat here, as the chat screenshot provided talked about the demolition of a sandbox area that is designed to be changed by players. It's a bit like moaning that your sandcastle got destroyed because a wave came in.

    I don't really think you can claim that someone is "threatening murder" if they say "I will end you" in chat. If you look at the context it seems more banter than a threat. I have heard worse things said in primary school than what is provided as "evidence" here tbh. I for one do not want to see the server become even more restricted in the language and, at times, the comedy we express. I wouldn't really like to see the server become even more of a "candy-land" sunshine and roses fake imitation of reality.
     
  5. I agree with ollie. this is madness like all of a sudden staff is pressing down on the toxic chat, but also bringing harmless jokes down with it. 100% of the people that have posted in this thread, including me, has said something toxic in chat. but it doesn't matter, we said we were sorry and its all that matters.
    I believe the only mods that should be involved in a moderation are the ones that don't know the person all that well. it will make it much easier and less frustrating for the members.

    the mods should sit down and try to verify a line between toxic and harmless jokes and fun.

    thanks for reading
     
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  6. Anon

    Anon Villager

    Hello everyone, thank you all for responding the thread and taking this all very seriously, ever since i've put up this post i've the the levels of toxicity go down and the staff team taking this more seriously. I made this forum to inform everyone and let them know that the toxicity is not ok and i think this forum has done that . Id love to thank the staff team and every player on this server for taking this a lot more seriously than before. The only request id like to make is for this forum to be locked by someone. Again, thank you all and have a good day! :)
     
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  7. nutalie

    nutalie Veteran

    Thread locked.
     
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